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While the first definition is true, what I like about the second is the recognition of understanding and still disagreeing. That definition fits better with my worldview. I find value in understanding the perspectives of others, in listening to them carefully. In order to fully understand, I don't need to agree. It seems easier to let my ego and perspective take over, but I am able to collaborate more easily with those who I understand than push my agenda on them. Yet, sometimes, my empathy is seen as agreement. So I continue to work on that balance.
I agree, the second definition feels the most correct. While you may not agree with someone's views or actions, you can understand what caused them to act or feel that way. Great slice! :)
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